Erin Gauthier

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Paying Attention - to YOU 

17.05.26 11:44 AM - By Erin Gauthier - Comment(s)

 everything is over…

you’re not alone.

But it’s also why nothing is changing.

A lot of people can explain their patterns perfectly in hindsight.

They know:
“I shut down there.”
“I avoided that.”
“I overreacted.”

But in the moment?

It happens too fast.

The emotion hits.
The reaction runs.
And awareness show...





You Think You Are Self Aware

17.05.26 11:40 AM - By Erin Gauthier - Comment(s)

But what if there was a deeper layer? What if most of what you are doing is most of what you’re doing is analyzing, judging, second-guessing yourself, and jumping from try this to try that? They are not the same thing.


Real self-awareness is neutral.

It sounds like:
“I got overwhelmed there.”
“I ...


When Your Best Doesn't Feel Enough

15.04.26 04:16 PM - By Erin Gauthier - Comment(s)

You are constantly trying to make your life better, smoother, easier, and more successful. It's a project, a way of life for you, but you aren't getting ahead - only keeping up, and some days, not even that. Most parts of life involve responsibility - things you need to do, handle, manage, schedule,...

Moments That Choose Us And How We Choose Back

15.12.25 11:06 PM - By Erin Gauthier - Comment(s)
Moments That Choose Us And How We Choose Back

This morning, before I left, I didn’t hug my daughter goodbye. It was a fear reaction — her brother came downstairs ready to go, and since he was ready, I didn’t want to risk us being late. I could have run upstairs for five seconds to say goodbye, but I responded in fear. Later, heading to work, I ...

It Was A Beautiful Day

07.06.25 10:16 PM - By Erin Gauthier - Comment(s)

left and right, even though it was like 6 in the morning. Most days (when I'm full of energy), I barely see a single soul, but today, when I forced myself to walk crawl, joggers were everywhere. At one single moment, there were two joggers running towards me and another passing me from beh...